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But this is all stuff that you can only figure out if you're comfortable talking to your partner about what you want, and doing a post-scene, post-sub-space wrap-up where you talk about what went well, and what you could do better next time. My 8 or 9 cents. YMMV
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AnathemaT on January 15, 2011 at 10:14 AM · Report
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The problem I see with the woman's fantasy is that the man playing the rapist has to read her mind. Without a safe word, or without discussing the fantasy first, how is he supposed to know what her boundaries are? I mean, to truly do what he wants without her consent is rape and that's illegal and can mess up your mind. I know from personal experience.
But the fantasy of having your lover take over and you get to be the total object of his/her
devious plans is totally hot and I would love a man tough enough to take me on!
Posted by BSweet69 on January 15, 2011 at 1:07 PM · Report
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The problem I see with the woman's fantasy is that the man playing the rapist has to read her mind. Without a safe word, or without discussing the fantasy first, how is he supposed to know what her boundaries are? I mean, to truly do what he wants without her consent is rape and that's illegal and can mess up your mind. I know from personal experience.
But the fantasy of having your lover take over and you get to be the total object of his/her
devious plans is totally hot and I would love a man tough enough to take me on!
Posted by BSweet69 on January 15, 2011 at 1:09 PM · Report
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Ooops. Sorry about the double post. New on here.
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