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January 31st, 2011 at 7:48 pm
Loneliness is a state of mind. It happens when your focusing on what or who you do not have in your life. Its based on the false premise that to be happy you have to have someone else with you. Being happy is about what you focus on. It is hard to feel lonely when you are living in the moment. I choose to cherish the moment I am in. It may not be full of excitement and wild adventure, but I am alive, I can see beautiful made bridges, hear amazing music, smell and taste delicious food. I can smile and share my smile. I can love people, perhaps not always in the manner and level that they would prefer, but I know my heart works just fine. When I feel sad I do not try to deny the feelings. I allow myself to feel sad and as I do, I try to understand the basis, the origin of that emotion. I always choose to see Hope in the next moment for another reason to smile. I am usually not disappointed. I choose not to judge my life as “less then” or “mediocre” simply because I do not live like a rockstar. God bless the lucky ones that can live that life. Sadly, some rockstars have proven that life doesn’t always equal being happy. I believe in God. I believe there was a man named Jesus who came to teach an important message about Love. For this reason, I believe I am never alone, and neither are you. <3
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Vox Says:
January 31st, 2011 at 10:20 pm
You revel in your own personal drama too much. No offense by pointing it out, because I used to do it too, so I get it. But it needs to stop I don’t want to sound like I am pushing anyone towards anything, but this book made a huge difference for me after I read it last year:
http://www.amazon.com/Sedona-Method-Happiness-Emotional-Well-Being/dp/0971933413 Changed me life, anyway.