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it is you who wants to pick at other human beings like a salad, taking what you want and discarding the rest, because you are incomplete (at this time). For these reasons, it is highly untoward of you to call/treat people obeying their natural spiritual calling to seek love, affection and healing from other humans etc. as sick or disturbed… without realising what is going on inside you is creating and perpetuating these small worlds… these localized centres of pain that feed the main river. Side Note: (I am of Zulu heritage so I believe in Ubuntu- which says I am because we are- I am human because other humans’ love, guidance, community and closeness moulds me into one. This informs my inference on it being natural to seek our healing from other humans.) If you are confused by a situation (inner and outer) its better to stay out completely than to go in and add to the confusion. Anything less than that is doing the devils work. check out but stay righteous, cos karma doesnt stop accruing just because you’re on a staycation from life.

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Truth Seeker says:
November 2, 2011 at 10:51 am
"so dont come here feigning confusion"

This is the problem I have. What I got from this post is "I've done the same thing. Repeatedly. Have gotten the same results. Consistently. Yet I think the problem is the other people involved."

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