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Paula Says:
March 4th, 2011 at 6:01 pm
Chuckrock, I’m with you, and I started out always sending this kind of message (in fact, it’s more or less identical.)
However, I’ve had a run of responses lately which make me regret it. Several guys have recently responded in one of the following ways: 1) How could you possibly know we’re not a good match just from my profile? (even though I’m on a site that uses other matching mechanisms); 2) Can you tell me why? (which would require me to say something that most likely would hurt their feelings); 3) Well, I understand that I’m a difficult person to match (or some other weird passive/aggressive kind of response designed to make me feel guilty for rejecting them.)
Between that, and the fact that a very small percentage of the guys I write to respond to tell me that they’re not interested, I’ve started to give up on the idea. And I’m a very non-religious Golden Rule practitioner.
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