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starita34 says:
August 29, 2011 at 2:23 am
Thank you! I'll take a little hurt now over a lot of hurt later any day. Please tell me the truth and let your actions match the truth!
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Phidelity15 says:
August 29, 2011 at 2:17 am
I needed this post in college…Hell I needed it about two years ago, when I stumbled into loving a dayum ice box (the fact that he was an Alpha was not lost on me either).Your statement about the new chick and his moving on though..whew! I hear you're reasoning, about we don't value ourselves and he can't be w/someone who would deal w/such bull, but I think the real reason is that because of the bs he's ruined a good heart/woman. Now everything w/this woman is too heavy, the conversations & that back story that you have becomes a burden because you both know that ya'll are in a effed up place and there isn't really anything that can be done to clean it up. The new girl doesn't have that knowledge of how cold dude can be, of how callous he was.Everything is light and fluffy because its new and light arguments, which is nothing compared to "why don't you love me" arguments he would had with the one who stuck around (cue Beyonce). If someone is emotionally unavailable then that doesn't afford them the right to hurt others with a "logical" excuse. I think following up words with actions would be alot more effective and less painful.
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