On Jealousy
Awkard Moments in Dating
Why Online Dating Sucks
My foolproof dating … don’ts
On Valentine’s Day
My boyfriend is the complete opposite from me! Can it work?
How to deal with an attention seeking friend
Feminism Killed Chivalry
On the other hand, if she likes me that way I am… that’s good.
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kbasd Says:
February 3rd, 2011 at 4:45 pm
Sure he is a catch. He has been domesticated. This is a very powerful thing in terms of what a woman needs today. Most divorced men really miss being in that family situation with a woman, where he comes home and there is someone there, that he was thinking about all day. About the money thing, it goes like this: Do you want a mant who is not interested in taking care of his kids? Think about what you wish for. Kids grow up and it happens fast. That 44 year old guy will probably have that happen in 8 years or less. And by the way, Ms Shennanigans, you have a kid too, that dominates some of your finances. So all your finances can’t go to possible future union. It really does work both ways in this brave new post feminist world that we live. I suppose you could go get the undomesticated guy, and try to get him used to having to make compromises and understanding it’s not just about him, but the family. Good luck with that at your age. Most unmarried guys in their 40’s are just not ready to make compromises and deal with family life. They sat on the shelf too long and got rotten; besides they are the leftovers that women didn’t want in the first place. Sure you could do the cougar thing, but that is just a phase these younger guys go through. And trust me they get up one day and look over at you sleeping next to them and they think damn, she’s old. Look, I know I did a lot of generalizing here, but it was neccessary to demostrate that there are challenges in any direction you turn. And ultimaately, I am playing devil’s advocate to see where stereotyping and generalising takes us. Just see each person as an individual. There are good men in all the categories that I addressed.