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Long-term you want to be able to improvise but I find routines a huge help for newbies.
on January 11, 2013 at 11:46 am
Got a long reply/analysis to this one in Moderation, and I dropped one on your Wednesday Field Report just now that’s also in Mod, so check ‘em out. Hoping they show up in time for you to apply some shit this weekend. :) Props on going out dude!
on January 11, 2013 at 11:58 am
“So…the target’s number I got yesterday? Yeah, nothing. Zilch! :D
I tried to do a text callback about the skydiving into sharks. No response.
Today I texted something about getting some drinks. The only response was ‘who is this, I don’t have saved numbers :P ’ I tell her who I am — No response. Trolololololol. Clearly I made SEVERAL mistakes during that set — or, she could have been exceedingly polite and laughed and made conversation to that end. ”
lol just wanted to address this now that I’ve read Wednesday’s Field Report:
You grabbed both girls’ numbers without showing this one any real Intent. The skydiving sharks thing is impossible for her to not remember unless she was shit-faced which it doesn’t sound like she was at all…so right there you know something happened to make her cold on you (but good on you for trying to push it anyway with the getting drinks, incase her phone was off or she forgot to reply or whatever).
If I had to guess, it’s possible that she thought you were into her 5.5 friend because you did chat with her and you didn’t make it real clear you were into her Intent-wise, or maybe even her 5.5 friend told her “I really like that guy I hope he txts me!!!” so when you txted her she could be thinking “oh this guy’s a player, he’s txting both of us I bet” or “oh no don’t txt me I thought my 5.5 was finally going to get a guy, ughhh you were supposed to txt her!!”