I think it was very nice of him to come over after a long day at work. I know I have a routine most weekdays – work, gym, then home, so for him to alter it for you says a lot. I think at this point you should doubt what he says, because you’ve only been dating a little over a month. You haven’t established trust yet, and this is why you may feel like you are in a tenuous situation, because you are. You’re at a very early stage and already displaying a lot of neediness. I think you need to hold off on that kind of behavior. While it’s terrible to feel ill, and I know, I have a chronic illness, you have to learn to deal with these symptoms mostly on your own.
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Jesse Says:
February 22nd, 2011 at 12:09 pm
If you believe that people date in order to discover the traits of the significant other before entering into a lifetime comitment, then I say the man is within his rights to act as he has done. He has found that the OP has a serious flaw, one he doesn’t quite understand, but one that may affect the rest of his life and the healthn of his children if he goes on to pursue a life with her.
I’m not saying that sick people shouldn’t get married. Just that they should be more understanding if someone who isn’t sick is no longer interested.
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Jesse Says:
February 22nd, 2011 at 12:10 pm
Marriage is different — through better or worse. Dating isn’t marriage and does not carry the same responsibility
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